Personal Safety & Self Awareness starts at home.
One of the most important things we as parents can do is pay attention to our own actions. How we interact with our husband will be the first lesson our kids will learn. If you allow your husband to treat you as if you do not count then that is what your children will think it's the way supposed to be consciously or subconsciously. They will be a product of their home life.
Be aware of this, the problem is that most domestic violence victims never know it is happening, until its too late. It starts out simple like while dating he gets mad at little things and over reacts about something that you never saw coming.
Self-esteem is another really big part. Teach your children that mistakes are good when you learn from them and remember to not make the same mistake twice,
Be confident in what you think it doesn't have to be right but if you defend your own thought it has power behind it.
Every night at dinner my father would ask the six kids a question and we would have to give our thoughts on the question, then you would have to convince the rest of the family why you thought yours was the best answer. I can't tell you how much this has helped me in my life.