Children and the Internet
Today, we all have immediate access to any and all information via the Internet. For those of us old enough to remember the hours we spent in the libary, this technological advancement called the internet is a wonderful tool. Our children in most cases are using the Internet to expand their horizons and enhance their knowledge base. However, have we done all we can to educate them on the dangers ever present on the Internet?
Technology has bridged the communication gap for millions of people worldwide. This can be a great bonus for teens. There are situations where a healthy and positive social circle online can be an effective substitute for children who experience issues at school. This situation isn't often the case. Many times teens may become involved in less-than-healthy relationships online. When parents isolate their child in their room, with a computer, the results can be disastrous or even tragic.
The worst aspect of the situation is many teen's naiveté. Children naturally think they are meeting another minor when they start up a conversation and agree to meet. Typically females are affected more than males. Girls in their teens chat regularly with someone and they honestly believe this signifies trust and honesty. They become closer and believe the other individual, supposedly a minor, is feeling the same emotional ties to them.
How can you prevent such tragedies as rape or even murder with your child? The prevention is likely far more simpler than you may think. As a Parent, it is your duty to ensure your children do not become a target or a statistic for internet predators.
The ideal approach is to speak with your child. Talk with your children, ask them specifically what they do online and with whom they speak with. I hope you everyone reading this knows who your child is friends with and speaks with when they are away from the computer. You should know who they speak with online. This is not to say you should be introduced or physically meet their friends online. This will just give you a glimpse into their online world.
If at all possible, limit Internet Connection in the bedroom. Encourage every member of your family to use the internet in a public room of your home. This will prevent any resentment that may arise if your child feels like you are unfairly targeting them. It may also help adults who may not be so internet savvy.
Teens in particular are incredibly insecure. If you suddenly start showing interest in their online activities, they may become angry or afraid. Even if it has absolutely nothing to do with prying into their lives or invading their privacy, they may believe that is what you are trying.
With consideration and preparation you can sit down with your teen and ensure they are not left feeling "targeted" or "picked on." Spending the extra time with your children should be viewed as a honor and a requirement for all parents
Written by: Michael Rao
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