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Fix Your Relationship: Never Opt For A Divorce
It is very important to learn and know how to fix your relationship and a whole better than opting for divorce. It is always considered to wise to stay in your marriage for whatever reason rather than getting divorced. The reason could that you love your spouse so much or hat your love your kids so much that the idea of losing them would hurt so much that you would prefer staying the marriage. The above stated reasons are good as long as they are what you wish for and desire. I can still vividly the very rough times my wife and I had in our relationship. It got to a point that divorced seemed like the only way out. It was at that point that I came cross the three tips that I am going to share with you. I give full credit to these tip they save my marriage. If you desire to fix your relationship, it would do you so much good if you would take to heart the tips ad addressed below.
Firstly I want you to cast your mind back to when you both started the relationship. Compare with then and now to see if you can identify the changes that have taken place. What are the things are happening now and then? Could it be that you have stop calling randomly as you used to do then to know how they are doing or how their day was? These things little as they may seem mean a lot and are very important in a relationship. If the case is then you have thought of doing them or on the other hand you used to do them but have stopped for a while now. You have to make an effort to fix your relationship. Be sure that when you do all the seemingly little things in a relationship they can make a very big difference.
The second tip is getting to know how time both of you spends together. Do you spend a lot of time together? Or just little or time together. Either way is bad and can adversely affect the relationship so there so great need to strike a balance. It may not be very easy doing whilst you marriage for one thing you both live together. So why dont you try visiting your friends. The woman can decides to go shopping with her lady friends and for the man hanging out with his male friends at pubs or any other mans hand out. Now the idea here is that when married folks spend too much time together they tend to get irritated with each other. So there should be time you spend on your own so as to strike a balance.
The last tip is the most important. Do ever forget to tell each other how much you love and feel for each other. Tell your spouse that you love them every day. The bottom line is expressing how you feel. You can be sure that the tips in these will helpful and you will be able to fix your relationship.
Written by: John Clayton
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